Confronting Your Own Soul – I saw it again and again. A person came to my office to ask for advice and wanted to change my life. Many were not willing to face each other in their own physical mirror.
This is difficult work. It’s scary to face the demons themselves, and then it’s even scarier to face these demons and defeat them. But there is no happiness without becoming aware. There is no conscience without pain.
Why is there fear? Imagine a vehicle, a car or a van driving on the road at the maximum speed allowed. Imagine that the driver of this vehicle must change direction in normal driving. The driver refines the steering wheel to change direction. Even a slight change of trajectory causes friction in the tread of the tire, front and rear, although the tension in the front tires is higher.
If the tires had physical sensations, there would be a pain on the surface of these tires because they are forced in a different direction. The break would occur in the tread of these tires if they were scraped on the asphalt or concrete of the road. The actual destruction of the molecules of the surface of the band takes place. In addition, the sides of the tires would be deformed. You can imagine that if these tissues were your tissues, you would have pain.
Deal with the pain
This happens when you try to change. You want to change direction. The tension in your psyche is great and this tension produces pain. However, we all want to avoid pain as much as possible. The greater the change of direction, the greater the pain.
However, you must deal with the pain or nothing will change. You can only bring light into your life if you overcome the darkness of your life. You overcome this darkness by confronting it.
Why should pain be tolerated? Because you have to look in your own soul. The memories are erased. Dealing with these memories and deciding to live now rather than those memories is key.
What are the memories? Memories are the places where the darkness of your soul lives. All mistakes and mistakes live in your memories. It is often painful to repeat your mistakes and atrocities. You see him again, and sometimes you become someone who is not what you want to be now.
Avoid this self-destructive behavior
People will do almost anything to resist these memories. They drink, consume drugs, they have exaggerated sex, they lie to themselves, they cheat on their loved ones, they hurt each other and can access the list.
To avoid this self-destructive behavior, one must endure the pain of remembering and then deciding to live at that moment. There is no escape from the process.
But when you see the process, the benefits of life are great right now. The spark floods your being. Your soul is freed from your bad and bad thoughts.
At the moment he declares and believes: “I did it, but now I live in this real moment”, the light enters. Getting to this point in your new life means that you have to look at what was and decide that it is not you now. All the darkness is behind and you are enlightened.
Confronting Your Own Soul is not an easy task, especially at the beginning of the effort. (It becomes easier and easier as you practice more and more.) When you face your demons and your conquests, you become aware of your darkness, you become aware of it, your soul and your being are free.